I'm resharing this because I've seen a truly disappointing number of people who follow me delete their account in response to people like me advocating suspending collaborator instances, and I've been looking and a shameful amount of them have gone back to Twitter.
Imagine "better tech solves things" being your sole ethical principle and then choosing to use lesser tech. They barely have principles and those they have they don't apply. Gross.
@emsenn they're definitely showing who they are and whose well being they care about.
@lawremipsum Oh don't be unfair - just because their inaction supports the status quo which is oppressive doesn't mean they support oppression. They're just taking their time to make sure they make the right choice in "does this support oppression."
I mean, sure a bunch of people from all walks of marginalized life, from poor to academic have told them yes, but can we really fault them for not rushing into such a decision, when the costs of moving instances are so high?
@lawremipsum They all had friends on other instances, and they put their allegiance to some ill-defined bastardization of prudence. They placed "doing things the right way," in the abstract, over "not doing things my friends say hurt them," in the concrete.
I think that's a hard thing for me to grapple with. I have beliefs. I have convictions. I've stood with a cop's gun to me and said "No."
But I'd still reconsider quick if a friend said to do so hurt them.
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